Take the Divorce Life Quiz

Welcome to your Free Life Evaluation:
As you complete this 5-minute quiz, you are really coaching yourself. When you are finished, I will get back to you with feedback to focus on to achieve your goals. Just click on the submit button when you're finished and I'll get back to you within 48 hours with the results.

A) RATE YOUR LIFE

1) How would you rate your life out of 10 (10 being you can't imagine it could possibly be any better) in the following areas?
Health & Peace	Money	Career/Own Business
Special Relationship	Family & Friends	Other
2) Given these scores, which 2-3 areas are you willing to improve over the next 6 months to make the biggest difference to your life? (Maximum Three)
Health & Peace	Money	Career/Own Business
Special Relationship	Family & Friends	Other
3) What three things are you most tolerating or putting up with in your life?
a)	b)	c)
4) What three things are you most loving in your life?
a)	b)	c)
5) If you could have more of ONE thing in your life right now, what would it be?

B) CREATE YOUR GOALS

6) Create 2-3 goals which would make a BIG difference to your life. Choose goals which would put a big smile on your face, and be achievable within 6 months.
a) Goal
Achieve By:
b) Goal
Achieve By:
c) Goal
Achieve By:
7) Imagine 6 months have passed, and you've done it! You have achieved each of these goals. Write down how you would feel having achieved each of these.
a) Goal
I would feel...
b) Goal
I would feel...
c) Goal
I would feel...
Hint: If you wouldn't feel wonderful about each of these, then you might like to go back to Step 6 and choose bigger or smarter goals

C) SHOOTING YOURSELF IN THE FOOT

8) a) Assuming all human beings have some way of holding back or sabotaging their life, which is your favourite method (choose one only)?
Procrastination	Indecisive	Arrogant/ being right
Acting as "Lone Ranger"	Tolerating	Not saying "No"
Controlling life /people	Not saying "Yes"	Following secondary goals (i.e. goals that won't ultimately make me happy)
Not always telling absolute truth		Other:
b) When you notice yourself doing this behavior (sabotage), what will you now do instead (i.e. what behavior will you replace it with?)

D) COACHING

9) Goals are much easier to achieve when you have a support structure in place. Which support structure(s) will you put in place this week to make these goals fun and easy? (Max 3)
Motivating display where I can see it often (e.g. put my Free Goals Report up in the bathroom).			Enroll in a (training) course. (e.g. painting course).
Enroll a buddy to go for the same goal(s).			Tell 3-10 friends of my commitment, and how they can support me (e.g. call me every couple of weeks to ask how it's going).
Join a club/hang out with people sharing the same goal(s). (e.g. join a gym, hiking club).			Set up a 1-6 month coaching structure with a good coach.
Other Support Structure:
10) a) If you had your own coach, what would you probably get from the coaching that would be most valuable to you? (3 maximum)
Challenge	Accountability		Focus	Support
Inspiration	Direction		Sounding Board	Ideas/ Strategies
Validation
b) If you ever decided to work with a coach, what would probably be the best time for you to start?
Within the next 10 days
Within the next 30 days
Within the next 3 months
Within the next 12 months

E) YOUR FREE GOALS REPORT

Free Goals Report Please send my customised Goals Report including a copy of the 'Wheel of Life' as well as Ten Tips for Moving Forward		Yes     No
Please contact me to schedule a free telephone Sample Session.		Yes (by phone)   Yes ( by email)   No
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