Create your Future NOW

Divorce gives you Opportunities to Discover a New You

Creating a New Life takes VisionTo create a new life takes vision. In order to create a new way of being you must know where you are going then work backwards and Be the Vision now!

“The best way to predict the future is to create it.”
                                                         Ramsey Clark

The Gift of a Well Lived Life after Divorce

To create a Vision of your future self, Shelley will assist you in discovering what truly has meaning for you and what you are passionate about. Once you are clear about your priorities, you are then free to create a vision of your future; a future that you know will give you the gifts of a life well lived.

Place Attention on your Intention

A Life Coach will hold that Vision (note the capital V) of you, the one you create, throughout your coaching so that you never stray from the path that will lead you to your creation. New habits will be cultivated to lead you to your Vision. We will put all of our attention on your intention and every action plan that we create together will always align with that Vision.

Focus on the Positive Act of Creating

Creating a new life concentrates on the positive act of creating, not the negative act of problem solving. Problems, or challenges, will always arise in any journey but as mentioned before, it is how we handle these challenges that will be the mark of our character. The real work is in the act of creation.

Here’s an interesting fact:

Thomas Edison spent ten years (1899 to 1909) developing a practical alkaline battery. In the first year of production, the Edison Storage Battery Company sold one million dollars worth of batteries. Edison later was asked if the 28,000 tests he had conducted on the storage battery had been a "wasted effort." He replied, "What do you mean, wasted effort? I now know 28,000 things that won't work."

Lessons in Deep Learning

Most of us get highly frustrated when we are working on creating significant change in our lives. We are used to instant gratification. True creators (inventors, composers, artists, scientists, etc.) take years bringing their creation to fruition. We get impatient after a few months. Don’t. To create change there will be many so-called setbacks. The term setback is a misnomer: they are lessons in deep learning that serve as guides on our road to our goals.

Start today by coming up with what you want in life. Don’t worry about the how, just the what. The how will take care of itself, you'll see.

To see how creating what you want in life is totally possible, contact Shelley today for a free 30 minute free sample session of Life Coaching.

Suggested Reading:

Transformational Divorce:
Discover Yourself, Reclaim Your Dreams & Embrace Life's Unlimited Possibilities

by Karen Kahn Wilson (Author)


Favorite Quote
If you want to know your past life, look at your present conditions; if you want to know your future life, look at your present actions.
Buddhist Teaching


Favorite Quote
The best way to predict the future is to invent it.
Ramsey Clark

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